Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I often get questions about how to attract women, or the direction to go in order to attract women.

A typical concern that guys have is ways to avoid making those critical mistakes on the first date that stops ever having a second date or developing a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship). I'll discuss a number of them in this post.

Well, there are certain mistakes a guy can make. Allow me to summarize the most common ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:

1) Speaking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.

2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.

3) Focusing excessively on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.

4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)

5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.

6) Not making future. (A relationship is all about future.)

The first mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk all about themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he has got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a wonderful catch.

What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't interested in her and does not listen to what she wants to talk about. Not a good relationship prospect.

Another way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting persons on a date. It is hilarious! They are both so busy wanting to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in the other.

If you do not know what I am discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is keen on you? Or a girl who is letting you know how cool she is, how hot she is, etc, and all sorts of other interesting things.

Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls will be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls enjoy being amused and entertained. Interesting guys are sort of like children to them. A source of non-sexual enjoyment and pleasure.

That is all we have room to talk about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.

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